Our "TRU-FRIENDS" Definition and Philosophy:
Someone who is kind, caring, thoughtful, a good listener,
patient, understanding, and non-judgmental (meaning someone who isn't looking
or finding faults in you, but willingly chooses to accept, admire and respect
you for who you are, and isn't trying to change you, allowing you to grow and
develop at your own pace and in your own way) and visa-versa.
Someone who is willing to be with you in good times and
times opposite; maintaining a positively charged attitude and perspective,
being encouraging and supportive along the way. And since none of us is
perfect, when things don't turn out the way you thought they should, you
willingly control your thoughts, words and actions so as to not become
offended; and would rather willingly choose to forgive and forget so as to
maintain and grow the friendship that you've created between you.
And if after, your heart and or mind is still found with
unrest, you thoughtfully and reflectively with an open mind and heart ask your
questions, always in tru-friends form, so as to receive a clearer
understanding. This to ensure your
peace is restored to your heart and mind.
And by so doing, you keep all things the opposite of good bound in the relationship (like jealousy’s,
fear’s, contentions, envyings, strife’s, conflicts, separations, divisions and
wars); becoming one in purpose, united, not-divided, in
your tru-friendships one with another; creating all the good that can be
created while growing and progressing as you individually will.